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You Can’t Handle the Truth

Goodboy

Just waiting for the Rapture at this point!
You Can’t Handle the Truth

The saying of "You can't handle the truth" quote comes from the movie A Few Good Men. However, that exact statement applies to most people today. Today if you tell someone The Truth that they don’t want to hear, they consider it an insult.

My point is that most people today can't handle The Truth. Well what is the Bible all about? The Truth correct? So if most people cannot handle The Truth and the Bible is The Truth, it only makes sense that they don't want to hear or believe it.

The excuse they use, is that we are insulting them. How dare you say that homosexuality is a sin? How dare you say my religion won't get me to Heaven? How dare you say that wives should submit to their husbands? This list can go on and on with the "How dare you say" feelings of being insulted. Today at some schools they can't even give a kid a bad grade, as that would be an insult, even though it is The Truth.

Don’t be surprised if when sharing the Gospel someone feels insulted and don’t let that stop you! :pray:

Goodboy🙂
 
Don’t be surprised if when sharing the Gospel someone feels insulted and don’t let that stop you! :pray:

Goodboy🙂
Amen! Very timely post, thanks for sharing.

Also:

2 Timothy 3: 12 In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, 13 while evildoers and impostors will go from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived.

This chapter is talking about the last days, 2 Timothy 3:1
'In the Last days perilous times will come'. Those who stand for truth will be persecuted as deceivers and those deceived grow worse and worse.

I have a cousin who is engaged to marry a pagan lady who is extremely hostile to the faith, he and some other relatives are trying to rationalize it, it's 'a way to get her saved'. Those who express reservations are being quietly cut off. It's the times we're living in. Stand firm for the truth and be persecuted. That's why it's good to have one another.

One way I think people can be pressed to compromise on the truth now is relational, they have a friend or family member and don't want to speak up for fear of wrecking the relationship. Another way is that the deception is presented as something seemingly good or laudable.

God Bless All :)
 
Amen! Very timely post, thanks for sharing.

Also:

2 Timothy 3: 12 In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, 13 while evildoers and impostors will go from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived.

This chapter is talking about the last days, 2 Timothy 3:1
'In the Last days perilous times will come'. Those who stand for truth will be persecuted as deceivers and those deceived grow worse and worse.

I have a cousin who is engaged to marry a pagan lady who is extremely hostile to the faith, he and some other relatives are trying to rationalize it, it's 'a way to get her saved'. Those who express reservations are being quietly cut off. It's the times we're living in. Stand firm for the truth and be persecuted. That's why it's good to have one another.

One way I think people can be pressed to compromise on the truth now is relational, they have a friend or family member and don't want to speak up for fear of wrecking the relationship. Another way is that the deception is presented as something seemingly good or laudable.

God Bless All :)

Justifying marrying (or dating, being in business, etc. with a non-believer) even if part of it is to convert (save) them, on the surface seems like a laudable goal. However, it is direct disobedience to at least two of God's prohibitions, denies the exclusiveness of The Gospel, and woe is the promised outcome. It also disregards the warnings and promises in 2 Timothy 3.

I have recently experienced (and continue to experience) the WOE, including abuse and exploitation, that comes from association with with the unsaved "friend" and previously-unknown-to-be-unsaved family members in connection with the trials and tribulations associated with caregiving and burying my (saved) Parents. I haven't told anyone outside of the one saved sibling of the circumstances and condition of my mentally ill, homeless, (questionable) saved/unsaved sibling because I certainly don't need any more trials, tribulations, or especially WOE, which God has promised would surely accrue from such unholy, defiant association/allowing into one's life:tap:

I also experienced this with my former husband, whom I thought was saved when we got married. I was wrong, and the WOE from that will follow me for the rest of my life.

Maybe I (hopefully) finally learned . . .

Jesus also essentially charged His followers to not waste time with those, who will not listen in Matthew 10, and promised them persecution at the hands of unbelievers, governments, religious leaders, etc. Bad enough to suffer persecutions at the hands of man for righteous deeds, but far worse to suffer WOE allowed by God as chastisement and/or natural Earthly consequences for failing to obey what is clear in His Word (Bible).

14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
2 Corinthians 6:14, KJV

20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!
Isaiah 5:20, KJV

6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
John 14:6, KJV

1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
8 Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith.
9 But they shall proceed no further: for their folly shall be manifest unto all men, as their's also was.
10 But thou hast fully known my doctrine, manner of life, purpose, faith, longsuffering, charity, patience,
11 Persecutions, afflictions, which came unto me at Antioch, at Iconium, at Lystra; what persecutions I endured: but out of them all the Lord delivered me.
12 Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution.
13 But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived.
14 But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them;
15 And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.
16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
17 That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works
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2 Timothy 3, KJV

12 And when ye come into an house, salute it.
13 And if the house be worthy, let your peace come upon it: but if it be not worthy, let your peace return to you.
14 And whosoever shall not receive you, nor hear your words, when ye depart out of that house or city, shake off the dust of your feet.
15 Verily I say unto you, It shall be more tolerable for the land of Sodom and Gomorrha in the day of judgment, than for that city.
16 Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.
17 But beware of men: for they will deliver you up to the councils, and they will scourge you in their synagogues;
18 And ye shall be brought before governors and kings for my sake, for a testimony against them and the Gentiles.
19 But when they deliver you up, take no thought how or what ye shall speak: for it shall be given you in that same hour what ye shall speak.
20 For it is not ye that speak, but the Spirit of your Father which speaketh in you.
21 And the brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against their parents, and cause them to be put to death.
22 And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.
23 But when they persecute you in this city, flee ye into another: for verily I say unto you, Ye shall not have gone over the cities of Israel, till the Son of man be come.
Matthew 10:12-23, KJV
 
Hello Ghoti! Thank you for your excellent post, I agree. Sorry to hear about your past experiences but encouraged that you've remained faithful.

I was also thinking of this scripture:

Matthew 10: 34 “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. 36 And a person's enemies will be those of his own household"

I think this is pointing to when a believer stands for the truth, for the Lord it leads to opposition and emnity, can split families. I think in our day, showing that we're really in the last of the last days, many 'Christians' aren't taking a stand, the Lord's words above often isn't happening, many 'Christians' are going along with anything to keep a feeling of peace, where there is no peace. In the situation with my cousin, not many family members have spoken out for fear of breaking the relationship. Those few who speak up are cut off.

God Bless You.
 
Justifying marrying (or dating, being in business, etc. with a non-believer) even if part of it is to convert (save) them, on the surface seems like a laudable goal. However, it is direct disobedience to at least two of God's prohibitions, denies the exclusiveness of The Gospel, and woe is the promised outcome. It also disregards the warnings and promises in 2 Timothy 3.
Yes, and thankfully God has forgiven my wife (If needed). She married me when I was not a Christian. It took a few years, and now, here I am.

She felt led to marry me, knowing in her heart I would be saved, as did the Lord know.

Just thought I would add my two cents.
 
I am also reminded that the Prophet Hosea, who married the prostitute, Gomer, in obedience to God's command. Although this was OT, not NT.

"The prophet Hosea was commanded to marry an unfaithful wife, and this set up a model of Israel’s broken relationship with God. Israel had been chosen and loved by God yet had been unfaithful to Him by way of idolatry. Just as Hosea redeemed his estranged wife and sought to continue his relationship with her, God promised to redeem Israel and renew their relationship with Him. The story of Hosea and Gomer is an unforgettable picture of God’s strong, unending love for His covenant people."
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I never understood why God told Hosea to do this until reading the Got Questions explanation.
 
On a similar topic, I was made aware of a controversial comment the Christian speaker Alastair Begg had made (having heard of him from various other Christians, often in a positive light). I was surprised by the advice given:

In a September 2023 Truth for Life podcast, Pastor Alistair Begg talked about advice he gave to a grandmother who wasn't sure that, as a Christian, she should attend the wedding ceremony of her grandson, who was marrying a transgender person.

Begg: "People may not like this answer, but I asked the grandmother, 'Does your grandson understand your belief in Jesus?' 'Yes.' 'Does your grandson understand that your belief in Jesus makes it such that you can't countenance in any affirming way the choices that he has made in life?' 'Yes.'

"I said 'Well, then, okay. As long as he knows that, then I suggest that you do go to the ceremony. And I suggest that you buy them a gift.' 'Oh,' she said, 'what?' She was caught off guard. I said, 'Well, here's the thing: Your love for them may catch them off guard, but your absence will simply reinforce the fact that they said, 'These people are what I always thought: judgmental, critical, unprepared to countenance anything.'"


God Bless All :)
 
In a September 2023 Truth for Life podcast, Pastor Alistair Begg talked about advice he gave to a grandmother who wasn't sure that, as a Christian, she should attend the wedding ceremony of her grandson, who was marrying a transgender person.
Begg: "People may not like this answer, but I asked the grandmother, 'Does your grandson understand your belief in Jesus?' 'Yes.' 'Does your grandson understand that your belief in Jesus makes it such that you can't countenance in any affirming way the choices that he has made in life?' 'Yes.'
"I said 'Well, then, okay. As long as he knows that, then I suggest that you do go to the ceremony. And I suggest that you buy them a gift.' 'Oh,' she said, 'what?' She was caught off guard. I said, 'Well, here's the thing: Your love for them may catch them off guard, but your absence will simply reinforce the fact that they said, 'These people are what I always thought: judgmental, critical, unprepared to countenance anything.'"
I may be missing something here but we don't obey God based on what we think will happen. That is how non Christians think. They make their own decisions regarding right and wrong. Based on that response we should also attend a Satanic wedding ceremony. I also should make the point that loving someone has nothing to do with agreeing with or condoning what they do. By attending the ceremony you are condoning what they do.
 
I may be missing something here but we don't obey God based on what we think will happen. That is how non Christians think. They make their own decisions regarding right and wrong. Based on that response we should also attend a Satanic wedding ceremony. I also should make the point that loving someone has nothing to do with agreeing with or condoning what they do. By attending the ceremony you are condoning what they do.
Jesus was friends with many different kinds of sinners.

No one sin is greater than another.

However, a gay wedding is not a wedding according to the bible. Yes, those gays getting married are sinners like we all are, but a wedding is a celebration of that sin. For a Christian to attend such an event, because they feel they are showing support, is wrong. I doubt any Christian would show support to an alcoholic by taking them to a bar, or one who struggles with porn addiction, we would not take them to an adult movie theatre to show support.

I agree 100 percent with you Goodboy.
 
However, a gay wedding is not a wedding according to the bible. Yes, those gays getting married are sinners like we all are, but a wedding is a celebration of that sin. For a Christian to attend such an event, because they feel they are showing support, is wrong. I doubt any Christian would show support to an alcoholic by taking them to a bar, or one who struggles with porn addiction, we would not take them to an adult movie theater to show support.

I agree 100 percent with you Goodboy.

Andy C,
Not only did you agree with me, but you made my point much better than I did! The point about celebrating the sin was excellent!!! 👍
 
I may be missing something here but we don't obey God based on what we think will happen. That is how non Christians think. They make their own decisions regarding right and wrong. Based on that response we should also attend a Satanic wedding ceremony. I also should make the point that loving someone has nothing to do with agreeing with or condoning what they do. By attending the ceremony you are condoning what they do.
Yes that's true. It seems to be that many Christian Pastors and speakers are becoming increasingly liberal or woolly in their replies to such problems. Alastair Begg's answer to this Q created quiet a stir because I think he had a very solid reputation up to this point. But in these Last Days it seems you just can't be sure what a pastor is going to say. God Bless :)
 
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